Hello Kathy,
thanks for inviting me.Yes people do come into and out of our lives for ALL sorts of reasons both Good & Bad.
Kathy,it's all about timing when they do enter our lives,as friends, stranger's & well known mates even end up Husband and Wife.
In our fast paced world today people don't seem to have time for each other anymore,couples even seperate after years of living together saving for that american dream a house children happiness yes all very favourable wanted items of life.
To get ahead and be financially sound we must do work and not seeing each other very much can actually be a good thing if it isn't let go un attended by discussing and making time for each other is most Important.
I know that in USA many working families do take part in family events on a yearly schedual which as an australian living a different paced lifestyle can see the difference in people and Kathy some of my nicest friends are single and work acholics for reasons we all know too well.
I have read of people that end up spending all their lives as adults alone, no friends, never married,I think about all these people that have NO ONE AT ALL to relate to as a friend or just an accquaintance,however sad it can be changed.I say hello to total strangers at times ,try it readers and Kathy you will feel awesome as some people very happily reply ,"Hello,morning or plain old G'day mate.
It can make your day believe me it has made mine a thousand times before and I have made some really great friends .
Have a nice day everyone.
Respectfully
jeffrey OBrien
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