Hello Mike, great to see you back and I'm sorry you're still having computer issues. My desktop is almost five years old now, but knock on wood, so far it's doing ok but I know it can't last forever.
Mike I saw first hand how old people are treated in some nursing homes. We thought we were doing the right thing by putting my dad in one back in February of '04 but let me tell you, it was nothing but a nightmare and after 19 days of not getting issues taken care of we brought him home. Since all of us kids were still working we hired people to help our mother and he lived until November before he died but I can tell you he was lovingly taken care of. He had Parkinson's disease and was an invalid the last several months he lived. If he had lived another month he and my mom would have celebrated 63 years of marriage. Most times when couples have been married a long time and one dies it's usually not long before the other dies and I think that is what happened to my mom. She had always been fairly healthy but she got cancer after my dad died and she died in June of '07 but then again she died at home because after what my dad went through in the 19 days in the nursing home that was not going to be an option. On the flip side there is a lot of elder abuse among family members too and to me this is much worse since these are the very ones we should be shielding from the hashness of the world in their last days.
I agree, it's great that Veronica has overcome a major stumbling block and I have nothing but the utmost respect for her winning this battle.
Mike, I know it may not seem like it, but I am a very tender hearted, sensitive and loving person. Most of the time I keep things to myself but I get my feeling hurt very easily. I wish I didn't but I guess it is just part of my makeup. It took me a long time to get out of an abusive situation and that has helped my peace of mind tremendously so it's true we never know what another person may be going through especially if they keep everything hidden.
When I started this forum I wanted a place where people could post and feel safe doing so and I think I succeeded with my goal as there are almost 31000 views, 1036 members and 2175 posts since I started it back on December 28 at about 10:00 at night. I am now thinking of starting another thread for controversial topics where people can post political or other topics that there is not another thread for. I've been doing a lot of thinking about it and if I do I hope no one will expect a reply on each post. :)
Mike I appreciate your posts and your thoughts and I'm sorry but I have no idea what has happened to Karen. Maybe someone reading this will know and let you know. Have a wonderful week.
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Hi Evelyn,
I have not been here for awhile as my computer is still acting up. Somewhere along the line my little trash can may show up, or may not. First, I would like to say that it is so wonderful to have Veronica back with us and I am so very proud of her for the way she has turned her life around. I hope that those who are not yet her friend will invite her to be their friend because she is such a wonderful person. I would also like to welcome Donald to our community and hope that he brings in a lot more songs. The poem by the cranky old man was right on. Although there are a lot of wonderful nurses and caretakers in this world, there are those that seem to feel that it is a waste of time to care for the elderly. Unfortunetely, I fit into that category. I would like to say that they should treat the elderly the same as they would their own families, however if they did there would be a lot more accidents taking place in hospitals as there are now. Our hearts do not shrinkor disappear as we get older, however they do tend to break a lot easier. So, for those that care for the elderly, there is an invisable sign on all of us that reads, "Caution. Handle with care." This also applies to those that happen to be retarded in some way. They are trying as hard as they can to function in our society. Instead of turning your back on them, how about lending them a hand up. They remember kindness a lot longer than we do, and they appreciate it.
The United States of America was established as a country that had freedom for all. When did we start seperating those that we did not want? I won't say too much on this subject except to say that when a person asks for your opinion on something, why do they than say that you are wrong on your opinion. If I ask your opinion on any given subject, and your opinion differs with mine, who is right and who is wrong? We are both right because as individuals we all make our own decisions on how we feel about different things. Finally, has anyone heard from Karen Gigikos lately? The last that I heard from her was in early June when she had an appointment with her doctor.
GOD BLESS YOU
~Mike~
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