Hi Mary Evelyn,

First I understood the reasoning behind being suspicious of non-photo members because of recent happenings, BUT when I looked at John's forum posts, there were only a few, here and at 1 other forum, and nothing to do with bothering people. The strong reaction from the other member made me think he'd posted tons of ads in tons of places, but that wasn't the case.

I also understand we're a few days away from Christmas and it's stressful and if people don't get their Paypal income by today, it won't be deposited into their banks by Saturday, I try to have some tolerance for people. We all need to be more tolerant, especially during holiday stress, and always try to be patient with new people who don't have photos, to give them a chance to upload and become familiar with being here. No reason for experienced members to freak out if nobody is bothering them personally.