"Greetings, dear ones! These energies with you now are indeed of the kind to pull away illusions and false fronts.
This frightens and disturbs those who depend upon the mask they have created for themselves, as it surprises or troubles you to suddenly see their shadow aspect.
Understand that no one comes to you without purpose. Either they have some Light to share as a friend would, or some healing to offer, or some healing or Light they are asking for from you.
And so bless all, and Love all, and know that whatever they may say or do, they express not your path or personage, but themselves and their own path.
This is not for you to decipher or solve. It is for you -- even for all of us -- to bless and release.
There are no energetic "caves and tunnels" to hide in anymore in Earth life. All is open now; all is honesty and increasing awareness.
So that each may now stand on his or her own, and find their own Truth, and proclaim their own sovereignty.
This is your process now -- nothing less than what feels to be impossible some days: Releasing the need for another's kindness, approval, or permission, as you anchor the Love that has no boundaries, that needs no explanation, on reason, no acceptance.
That alone exists -- as you exist, as Love Itself. That is enough, dear ones.
Call upon us, when the way is painful or confusing. Sit quietly and speak with us or your Support Team of guides, Angels, and higher self. All is well.
Namaste, Light Bringers, Creators of the New Earth!
We are with you, always."
Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan
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Excerpt from Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship
From Chapter 11 – “On Breakups, Divorce, and Releasing Those You Love”
[QUESTION] I think many people tend to wait for very obvious, painful reasons to leave a friend or lover or spouse who is no longer for their higher good. We wait till we have to leave a relationship, because the signs have become unavoidable, even tumultuous.
Yet even when we choose to leave a relationship, there can be much sadness or bitterness later, as we look back at how we were treated by our partner.
Is there a way to break up with or divorce someone, and not hold bitterness towards them?
And is there a way to break up with someone in ways that are amicable and respectful of one another? To not look for ways to argue or accuse?
[The Collective] We would say, that the tendency that you describe, of needing to create a left-brain “reason” to finally act on the intuitive feelings you have had for a while, will be easily recognized by many.
Many only jump out of the boat—with much drama—when they realize how badly it is sinking.
And yet, human beings have now entered a time when they will increasingly prefer to release their connections with others in a calm and peaceful way.
They are increasingly finding now that becoming angry, accusing their partner, or finding fault in them is no longer necessary to release a situation that is no longer for their higher good.
We would also say, that dissatisfaction is not the only reason that so many are leaving long-term relationships at present.
Many are finding now that they have not only outgrown connections formed in the past, but are badly needing time on their own.
Time in which the presence of a partner, or of anyone, does not intrude upon or influence their thoughts, feelings, and decisions.
Most people (and all Lightworkers) need a “quiet time” in their day. Time they put aside for reflection, prayer, meditation, affirmations, or forms of healing with or connecting to the Earth.
Some are finding that twenty minutes a day or even one whole day a week is no longer sufficient. They need weeks or months, sometimes years on their own without a long-term romantic partner.
Not to shut others out, but to clarify and realize certain things about their own path. Or even to affirm that they have a path, and that it is as sacred as anything else on the Earth.
When you speak of finding a grace-filled, calm, nonaccusatory way to let go of someone, you are in fact openly expressing a new requirement.
One that you either didn’t feel when you met your partner, or have not felt so powerfully before now.
That new requirement has to do with the need to separate from energies that may have once powerfully shaped and influenced your day, including how you saw your life purpose.
But now you have experienced a great shift, a movement toward not only more quiet times, and more time on your own, but toward redefining whole areas of your daily life, and your inner life.
We would say, that it would be unusual for beings on an Ascending planet to not experience this need for comfort, quiet, inner reflection, and more rest.
And for a new and higher understanding of who they are and why they are here.
We would suggest explaining this need to a partner, as being one of the calmer ways in which to tell them that you need to be on your own now. For whether you realize it or not, even the desire to be with a new partner involves more than simply releasing the old.
It is a way to make more room for the new “you” now being born.
A being of a far higher and finer vibration than you were even a few months ago.
In fact, a new partner often represents to you some aspect of your own being which you are fast realizing and developing.
It is not only a question of meeting someone who brings out something new in you—some joyful form of self-expression or self-knowledge you didn’t know was there.
You also desire to someone who allows your growing consciousness the room it needs to fully stretch its wings.
The bitterness you speak is often not so much a reaction to what a partner has done, but a realization of pain within you they have unconsciously tapped into.
We have spoken of how it is part of their job, as someone who loves you, to show you those parts of your being, conscious or unconscious, that need to be healed, or feel they are not lovable.
It is also part of their job to remind you of how powerful you are.
Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan
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