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Re: Spirituality and Success
10/19/2005 1:43:25 AM
Hi, Kris, Jack and Thomass I'm back and have just read the latest contributions. Wow, there is some deep thinking going on here! I'm not going to join the fray at this time because I need to re-read everything and it's way past midnight. But I will answer Jack's question about whether I was on the sideline: Yes, and No. When I started the group of forums that this thread belongs to, I set them up as moderated to make sure everyone would play nice. I have seen some forums where that was not the case. But I didn't want to stifle conversation while I was gone, knowing that I wouldn't be able to be on the internet even daily, so I opened them up. That I haven't added my 2cents worth had to do with time factors, and also with the fact that keyboards in Mexico have all kinds of unexpected differences, so I couldn't type accurately with any speed. This thread is a fantastic example of how people can bring up excllent points all around, remain civil, and still disagree on what is being discussed. I have been reading it with great fascination, and I have the perception that we are really more in agreement than not, although there seem to be some semantics masquerading as differences of opinion. I'll try to develop that thought a little bit and have a real contribution to the conversation within the next couple of days. Meanwhile, it's great to be back though we had a wonderful time. I look forward to getting to know each of you better now that I'm home for a while. Cheri
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Re: Spirituality and Success
10/19/2005 10:15:34 AM
Hi Cheri, Personally I could never understand why anyone would moderate a forum. When I find a post that is out of line I just delete them and keep the thread moving. I'm glad to hear you think we are playing nice. Hopefully you might reconsider the moderated policy as unnecessary in the future. I think what you are saying is mostly true about semantics. I've read many self improvement books and use the principals often. What I'm trying to say is that the individual needs to decide for them self where they need to go to grow. Just because so and so says read my book or another persons definition of reward for working hard is material things. I'm not trying to diminish. There are lots of people that don't believe that a good life can be theirs. It can be. Just think about a good life and be happy with what you believe and a fulfilling life will be yours. Our methods differ a little bit but as long as the result is the same everyone is right. Some methods work better for some than others. Being willing to try new methods is the sign of a winner. We live in a instant gratification society. My methods work well for me and I get what I need when i want it. It is important that someone like myself that puts these principals to work everyday. Post to give feedback to what works for them. Jack is also very important because he represents what common knowledge is. Debating with him here has been very good for both of us and has strengthened our beliefs. Both of us will lead a more enriched life after our dialog is over. That is what the whole discussion is about having a better life. The great thing is neither of us is wrong just different. Enjoy abundance in your life today Everyone have a wonderful day Peace, Love, Liberty Kris

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Re: Spirituality and Success
10/20/2005 5:46:44 PM
Welcome back Cheri How was your trip; excellent I hope. This is a good forum thread you've created here. The three way conversation that we are having so far is stimulating. I hope that more people join us here in this thread. I have sent them a message (the ones on my friends list) but I have noticed none have ventured to add a post here yet. Of course all but Kris; and he is a great conversationalist. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this so far. your friend Thomass Namaste
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Re: Spirituality and Success
10/22/2005 12:48:34 AM
Thank you, Thomass. Yes, my trip was wonderful. OK, I think I'm ready to play here, now. I've read everything again, and let's see if I have your viewpoints correct: Thomass, your article referred to the immutable laws of quantum physics, and to the surprising results that occur when one shapes one's intentions with full awareness of the power of the resulting energy. That energy effects real outcomes in the physical world. This is scientific fact, measurable on the subatomic level. You go on to expound upon one's power to simply choose or create one's own desired outcome. From this viewpoint, success either is or isn't...there is no becoming successful, only being so. Kris, you seem to have attained a state of being in the flow such that you no longer require labels for many of the concerns that the rest of us spend our time in (success, work, etc.). Your contentment is to be envied, although I am sure you will reject that concept as well. This is the difficulty I find in the evolution of my understanding...changing my language impairs my ability to convey my meaning to those who still require labels, not changing it impairs my ability to communicate with people who have changed theirs. Yet, I have some understanding that the language itself affects the flow of energy and use of those labels may disrupt it. Such a quandary! Jack, you bring up the word metaphysical. To be certain I understood its meaning, I looked it up: "Derived from the Greek meta ta physika ("after the things of nature"); referring to an idea, doctrine, or posited reality outside of human sense perception. In modern philosophical terminology, metaphysics refers to the studies of what cannot be reached through objective studies of material reality. Areas of metaphysical studies include ontology [A branch of study concerned with the nature and relations of being, or things which exist.], cosmology [A branch of study concerned with the origins and nature of the universe.], and often, epistemology [The study of theories of knowledge or ways of knowing, particularly in the context of the limits or validity of the various ways of knowing.]." It is in this word that I see the crux of our semantical difficulties. I say we are all essentially in agreement, although perhaps on a continuum rather than in perfect step. Here's the thing, though. The definition of metaphysical is obsolete. Science has now observed the connection between what we thought was metaphysical and what we know is physical. There is no difference...it's just too tiny to see with the unaided human eye where the physical that we observe everyday is in juxtaposition with what used to be the realm of philosophy. In the macro sense, it is observable but not necessarily measurable with our current technology, and one can't therefore easily apply the law of cause and effect. Jack, I'll quote you here, because you describe the result very well: "The power or energy (friendlier word) that one has within is also expelled and it's this outgoing energy that grows from one to many. I call it charisma you say laws of attraction. There has been many influential leaders in the pass (good and bad) and there will be many more. All great leaders possess a level of energy that is ultimately used to influence an outcome and achieve success. I guess in my view I was not placing a close connection of faith or some spiritual energy to a calculable achievement." At the moment physicists observed that the act of observation changed the expected outcome of an experiment on subatomic particles, the connection between faith (or expectation) became calculable. Thomass, do I have this right? I'm such a neophyte, I sometimes think myself into the middle of a Gordian knot and don't know where to go from there. How am I doing so far? --------------------------------------------------------------- I'd like to address success vs abundance. To me they are not equivalent. A sense of abundance is the evidence of success. However, I think I understand Kris' reluctance to use the word success, because it has come to imply only the material aspect...and that's not necessarily what we're discussing here, or not all of it. I'd like to offer this as an alternative: For me, now, success is the state of being fully satisfied with one's condition. There are at least two ways of achieving it. One way is to choose to be satisfied, no matter what that condition is. Kris appears to be there. I think Thomass advocates this method, am I correct? I think you are saying that the act of choosing satisfaction creates the condition that you would have wanted in the first place if you were striving instead of just being. It's a feedback loop with a positive outcome. The other method is to form a picture of the ideal condition and use one's powers to achieve that condition. By powers I'm referring of course to work, education, and even energy in the sense of intent. I think Jack would recognize that as a legitimate way of achieving it. "[Jack says], focus on a vision, define your purpose, set some objectives, execute a plan, measure your results and see if you succeeded." Works for me. I'm a workaholic anyway. I enjoy work. Does that mean it isn't work? Then that's a feedback loop with a positive outcome, too. The more I get to do the things I enjoy, the more satisfied with my condition I am. I'm pursuing both methods. I will admit to not yet being completely satisfied with my condition, at least with many if not most aspects of it. In particular, I'm not satisfied with the material aspect of it. However, I'm working on understanding why that's so, even though I am able to pay my bills, shelter my family, eat more than I need to survive and in fact have incredible material abundance compared to, say, most of the citizens of a third world country. I suspect that I won't be satisfied with my condition until it includes the material ability to alleviate some of the discomfort or even suffering that goes with material, educational or spiritual lack, either my own or that of others. I remember being certain in my early 20s that I could fix all the problems I could see in the world. Someone convinced me that I couldn't. Now, my understanding of the concepts that Thomass and Kris allude to has given me back the certainty that I can choose to have a positive effect and it will in fact come about, i.e., I can choose and therefore create my outcome. Thomass, is that not also what you are accomplishing with your Pathway to Peace project? If you take Kris' thoughts to their logical conclusion, you will stop promoting it and it will just happen. Kris, am I understanding you correctly? Why, then are we taking action for our projects' completion? This is not meant to be argumentative...I really want to know! What the means will be for my vision, I don't know. Call it faith or call it intent. In either case, the energy of the belief is what to me is spiritual, Jack, and the connection is that the outcome depends upon it. Try to accomplish something without the belief that you can, and you certainly will not. I've spent almost 57 years proving that. I don't yet have the language to adequately convey these concepts, which is why I asked Thomass to do so. I agree with Jack that it's a fine intellectual exercise. It's also helping me to grow and clarify for myself where all this is taking me, which in turn is deeply satisfying to me. I thank all of you for your continuing participation! Cheri PS. Wow, this was a long post! Should I have broken it into two? I was accused in another forum of being long-winded (not in so many words, but I understood). Could I get some feedback, please?
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Re: Spirituality and Success
10/22/2005 10:54:46 AM
Language is very important to how we perceive the world around us. Prefering a word over another dose not in any way impair your ability to communicate. Cheri Because you think removing a word from your vocabulary would impair your communication ability. It will. In fact that is one of the best ways to communicate more effectively by eliminating words you don't like from daily use. If you find a word that you don't like. Crack open a Thesaurus and look for words like it. When you open your mind to describing the world around you in more specific terms. You become a more effective communicator to your fellow man. Also because you speak a different language than the average person some people will be attracted to you. I disagree that abundance is a result of success. When most people speak of success it is something they are striving for. Something they do not have. Something they must work for. Abundance is accepting what you have and being happy with it. Using your natural gifts to attract more of what you need into your life. The more I have the more I can give away. To me the concept of success is supported by the ego. Abundance is supported by your natural connection to the world around you. With a thought abundance can be yours. Your needs and desires can be met with just a though and a little emotion behind your desire. For instance if you were to lose all your material possessions, job and standing in the community. How successful would you feel ? Would you need to get them back to feel successful ? An abundance outlook will not compel you to seek those lost things. A abundance outlook will actually bring those lost things back instantly if they are truly yours. You will not feel emotionally devastated by the loss. An outlook of abundance might even allow you to look at other opportunities that will provide better for you in the future. Once you become happy and fulfilled with where you are now with what you have now. Getting to the next level is rather easy and miracle happen every day that get you to where you want to go. It has a lot to do with your expectations and how quickly you want them. For instance the past couple of weeks I've been thinking of going to see my family for the holidays. The other day I got a private message from a travel agent that is a friend of mine here at adland. She was offering discounts on holiday travel. Conventional wisdom would say that I would need to work to make money to buy a ticket to make the trip I wanted. Well here is what happened with just a thought. I replied to the message ,but didn't want to have to wait all that time to get the ticket to make the trip. I put emotion with my desire when replying that I might contact her to buy a ticket latter. The next morning I get a call from my step mother. She is saying that she has a free ticket from her frequent flyer program. She would like to buy a ticket for me to come for Thanksgiving. Of course I accepted what was attracted to me gratefully and felt blessed to not have to wait any longer for my desire to be met (9 hours). What would have happened if I didn't get the ticket. I would have still have abundance in my life. I wouldn't feel unsuccessful if I found myself without a ticket. There must have been a reason that the ticket was not provided for me as I wanted. I have a desire to own a sail boat and sail around the world. The boat I want has a cost of around 1/2 -3/4 million dollars. Materializing this life long desire will be my ultimate test. I've no time set to achieve this goal. I have a strong emotional connection too achieving this goal but don't have a real plan to do it. As soon as I conquer some other concepts that hold back my thinking. The boat will be just a thought away. Yesterday I materialized a plane ticket perhaps next year I'll be thinking correctly and have my boat. If I don't get the boat next year, abundance will still be with me just as it is every day of my life. I don't need the boat to feel fulfillment in my life. I'll never get depressed that this goal is unrealized. Coming to terms with these emotions is perhaps the most important thing in materializing the boat into existance in my life. Enjoy abundance in your life today Everyone have a wonderful day Peace, Love, Liberty Kris

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