Hi Linda,
This is a terrific article! I know our newcomers to our community will find it of great benefit.
I too, like everyone else receive tons of forum invitations. And its not physically possible to respond to each and every one of them. And yes, many of them are blatent ads, and I'm simply not interested. But, I do try to actually look at the forums I'm invited to. If I find it interesting or informative, I'll post. And I'm guity as charged... with posting "great post, thanks for sharing", but sometimes I feel it necessary to commend the forum owner for their efforts, especially if said owner is a newcomer. (wouldn't want their efforts or spirits dampened - some people who have never done anything like start a forum before, can actually be scared to death that they will do something wrong and in their eyes, make a fool out of themselves. (been there, done that - LOL!)
Also, (and this is just a tad off subject), but still closely related I think, and if its not, my apologies) I believe that folks also should be aware that when sending invitations for friendship here, sending a blatent ad in your invitation is a definate turn off for many people. I receive many, many invitations that is one big ad. No "Hi how are you, kiss my foot" or anything else but "Visit my site and make $$$". Well, thanks, but no thanks. At least become my friend with a sincere invitation before you send me an ad.
When an invitation is sent, visiting the website of the invitee and commenting on it, shows the invitee that you at least were interested enough to see what they were offering. Be sincere with your invitation, and leave the ads out.
Okay, I feel better now :)
I look forward to more of your articles, Linda.
Lisa :`)
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