Hi Mary,

I paid nothing to learn how to get my sites to the top of the list.

It is a simple  process of  having  good meta tags that ARE RELEVANT to the content of your page. I use NO black hat methods.

As for paying to be able to send spam ads to members message boxes this is the desperate marketers ploy.

It is nothing less than down right arrogance for ANYONE to take for granted that because a friends request is accepted,  that it gives the requester an automatic  right to start sending ads to the person that accepts.

Hi Jim,

I have faced the ire of the  so called "Good People"  (I am sure that should read  false flag wavers) of Adland before and  I am sure I will face it again in the future.

Cliquish  is a word  and  a very appropriate one. Its is a fact that  if you are not part of the  Clique  here you can expect little support.