Dear Marion:
I am so glad to here that the surgery went well. I don't know if you were aware that my husband a year ago had 90 days to live with 3rd stage inoperable lung cancer with 5 lymph nodes involved. the cancer was pressing against his esophagus and approaching the heart. he at first was not going to do the chemo and radiation, for fear that I would be left penniless. I immediately told him that I could take care of myself and that this wasn't about me, but about his life and our lifes combined as well as our children and grandchildren. If then decided that he would do it this time, but that if it came back again he would not.
I respect and admire anyone facing this horrible disease, decision on how they want to spend there time with there loved ones. It is after all there life, no matter how difficult it may be for the ones that love him or her.
I will continue to pray for Payton and his family and friends. All of you need the prayers and the power of positive thinking. What ever happens and what ever decisions Payton makes will be the right ones for him.
Love your Sister and Friend
Bev
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