Hello my friends,
Having confidence and a purpose are important
traits of those who have learned to show their
charisma.
But confidence and purpose will take you to
absolutely no where without another crucial
element.
Commitment.
Others are quick to notice whether someone
is really invested in the things they are
involved in doing or promoting.
It is no great feat to display confidence in a task
that is easily accomplished.
Neither is it any thing to cheer about to have as
your purpose in life or work a thing that is
easily attained and capable of being reached
without much effort or by most anyone who tries
at all.
What sets those apart is the level of difficulty.
And what sets those people apart, who we see as
having charisma, is their commitment to achieving
their goals.
Visible commitment is a powerful trait of the truly
charismatic person.
Overcoming obstacles, continueing in the face of
adversity, even failing a time or two, but not
giving up, will only enhance the image, the essence,
the charisma of the person.
Not just saying you are committed.
Anyone can say that they are wholly committed to
something.
Instead, the most powerful method of displaying
commitment is by, well, displaying commitment.
Showing, by your actions, that you are committed to
achieving your goals.
If you want others to believe you are invested in
achieving your goals, be committed.
Face the difficulties squarely.
Rebound from setbacks with an even stronger
determination.
Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off.
Get right back in the game.
Do not accept, never consider, that failure is an
option.
Decide, determine, that your journey will not end until
you have reached your goal.
The world may love a winner, but it never forgets the
ones who never gave up.
Don't give in, put in.
Many blessings to you all, kathy martin
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