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Who is Julie ( Jewel ) Bethel?


Julie ( Jewel ) Bethel

Julie ( Jewel ) Bethel
BirthdayThursday, January 18, 1962
Genderfemale
Member SinceFriday, November 24, 2006
Last ActivitySunday, October 5, 2008
LocationQuesnel, British Columbia, Canada Canada
About Me
About Me
I was born in Oakville Ontario, on January 18th 1962. My grand mother raised me for my first year, as I was a small and sickly child. After my first year, I went to live with my parents. Which wasn't an easy or loving situation. I was born with a handy cap, so to a drunken father I couldn't have been his, And a mother that couldn't except me. Being brought up with a family that hated me so has affected my life in a big way. I remember being locked in the closet to sleep at night. Hiding every time my father came home,I remember the nightmares. The nightmares that haunted my life. But I am getting ahead of myself here, Finally after running away time after time the welfare system took notice. My father was taken away. He was charged with child abuse, I never saw him after that. except in my nightmares, afraid to sleep at night. As the nightmares always came. Which stayed with me until I was 17 years old, and told my father had drowned. As for my mother she hated me, she said that it was my fault that that the family wasn't together. I was 5 years old when my father was put in prison, by the age of 7 I was taken from the home and put into the welfare system. I did see my mom from time to time, it was hard being the only child of 6 that wasn't with her family. At that time all I wanted was to be loved, but love wasn't gonna find me with her. At the age of 16 I went to live with my mom, but she was more cruel. So I tried staying out as much as I could. Every time something happened at home, I was blamed. If one of my sisters or brothers did something, they would blame it on me. Here is an example, my brother told my mom that I had taken 10 cents from her coat pocket. Well she believed him, so up the stairs she came. I remember laying on the floor, while she was kicking me in the back and chest and stomach. Because of this kind of stuff happening I did everything I could to stay away from her. So a friend of mine at the time suggested, that if we got married my mom wouldn't be able to touch me again. So at 16 years old, I got married. I finally would be considered an adult, and my mom couldn't touch me. I ended up pregnant at 17 and alone, as I left my husband. Another friend and I got together, he excepted that I was pregnant. Things were okay for about 5 years, in which I had 2 more children with him. But things weren't working out between us, so we choose to part. And all this time, I was still trying to have a relationship with my mom. I was setting myself up to be hurt by her I would take my last dollar, to put into the gas tank. Just to be able to drive her around, and she couldn't even buy me a cup of coffee. I remember going home, and just crying from the hurt. After years of trying to have a relationship with my mom, I finally had to let it go. Because I knew, that no matter what I said or did she was never gonna love me. I finally came around and put my energy into my children, and there needs. I wasn't gonna let my personal life affect them. I took a course in traffic control and tried to improve my life. I did traffic control for about 13 years. I know that my kids have been affected by my life, not having there grandma like most families do. They have voiced there hate for her, but I've always tried to smooth things over. I moved away from having to see my mom, as it always seemed, I would run into her here and there. And a big part of my recovery was to not see her. But in doing that I now live along ways away from my adult children, and my 2 beautiful grand daughters and one grand son. And having medical problems, I can't afford to move or live near where they do. I have been told by the doctor that I will have to give up on traffic control, and this is my lively hood. But the pain I'm in every day, with my arm is making my life tough. I know that I will have to give it up, so I turned to the internet. Only to get scammed at everything I tried. I do not want to have to depend on anyone for help, as I'm a fighter. When I first started online, I was full of hope and self worth. But over time and being scammed as much as I was has left me a little insecure. I want to be self supporting and make enough money, that I can move closer to my daughter and grand daughters. As I miss them so much. Since I moved out here, I basically have made myself a loner. I don't go out. I have no life or happiness, it is my family that brings me my happiness. I know that closing myself off from the outside world isn't healthy. I want to move closer and try and start my life over. I have come to a big turning point in my life, I'm tired of feeling lonely, and not having any friends. It has taken me to hit rock bottom, that I know I have to make some changes. If I want to be happy I have to take action. And thats where I am, I do not want pity, Wanting these things in my life, has opened my eyes. But I will fight for my freedom and my life. I would love to write a e-book on the lasting effects of child abuse. In writing this about my life, it is aiding me in my recovery, As my silence I have held deep inside all these years needs to be unleashed. And talking and sharing this will dramatically aid in that recovery. I look back on my life, If people truly knew the effects of child abuse and how it effects the person the rest of there lives. If in writing about my life, I stop just one person from doing this to there child. Then my life will truly have a meaning. After I was taken away from my mom, I was brought up catholic. I attended a catholic church until I was 16, it was at this time that I got really angry with my family and yes with god. I had lost my faith, I couldn't understand how he could let all the things that happened in my life happen. I remain angry for most of my adult life, Though hitting rock bottom in my depression and loneliness, I realized the only person I was hurting was myself. I realized that until I could forgive my mom and dad, that I would remain angry and bitter. I cannot say that today I am totally free from the hurt, but I am working on that every day. I have found a power I had lost for so many year, I had lost myself. I am my most powerful asset. And with the help of god I will strive to achieve my goals. ( WE ALL HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE OUR LIVES AND ACHIEVE OUR GOALS ) NOW on a lighter note, I guess I'm to old to be "adopted". HA HA HA Your Friend Julie
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Scott Ohnmeis - (1/17/2011 3:29:15 AM) : Happy Birthday!
Jan (aka) Jaz Green - (1/15/2010 9:18:50 PM) : Happy Birthday :)
Ron Eagle - (6/21/2008 8:55:22 AM) : Hi Jewel

Ron Eagle from Canada here.Have you been working on line long?I have been on for 13 years.Lets' chat one day...

Cheers

Ron Eagle
skype: roniswell
Joelees Wholesale - (2/14/2008 8:49:19 AM) : Hi Jewel,
Welcome to Adland Family Of Friends,Thank you for accepting my invite :-) I'm honored to be a member of your adland family. Gods speed my new friend :-) Lee
Barb Doyle - (7/25/2007 6:50:07 PM) : Hi Jewel,

Just stopped by to say hi. I hope all is well with you. I appreciate your friendship. Never forget how awesome you are. You are a friend of mine and definitely deserve a 10. I'm here to help you in anyway that I can. Have a great day!

Peace, Health and Prosperity,
Barb Doyle, Sc.

Create the lifestyle you've been dreaming of!
http://empower.thisworks.biz
Joe Downing - (1/23/2007 12:49:19 PM) : Julie,

I just read your About Me page. My heart goes out to you. However, I am happy that you are a fighter. The humor at the end tells a great deal about you. :) Everybody wants somebody just to know they have been hurt. Your story signifies the true spirit of someone who is strong and will persevere through anything. I believe you will find in time that a true circle of friends here (and other places) at AdlandPro will have you feeling as though you have been adopted. Remember this:

Where there is Love,
There is Life!
--Gandhi

I officially adopt you as my friend!
Brenda Caldwell-Hill - (1/17/2007 11:12:50 AM) : Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you. If I could sing, I'd sing Happy Birthday to you.

Your Friend Brenda
David Daniel - (1/12/2007 3:59:56 AM) : GOOD LOOKING POSETIVE PERSON

DAVID
Bruce Arsenault - (1/8/2007 11:31:59 AM) : Pay attention to detail.
Randy Anderson - (1/8/2007 11:22:33 AM) : HI Julie

I've read your personal profile and it made me sad, but please do not confuse my feelings with that of pity.

There are a lot of promises to make money on the internet and most are difficult at best and there are some that work extremely well.

It sounds like you would benefit from a program where you will have a lot of friendly people devoted to giving you the personal support you need and a feeling of happiness that comes from a loving family.

The only way you will be sure that you won't be scammed is to research an opportunity to it's fullest before jumping in.

In order for people to make a decent retirement they need to make a lot of money to invest, the problem is getting the extra money to invest and getting the knowledge to significantly reduce the odds of losing money in those investments.

If you have the means of getting that knowledge and you can sell that knowledge, you'll basically have free money to fund your investments. It's a win win situation.

If you are open I invite you to look at something that will get you making money fast and allow you to move closer to your daughter and grand daughter ASAP. I can't make you any promises but if you are caochable and have drive you will succeed.

The products show people "how to make money" "save more of the money they make" and then "what to do with that money once they've made it". On the business side, if people are interested in getting these products to others, they will be rewarded substantially.

In order to make a lot of money in any business you need to have products that are beneficial to everyone, fit into a large and growing trend, have a high return on advertising dollars, and marketing tools that create interest making your job easier and giving you more free time.

I have created a simply lead capture page www.HighIncomeReview.com that when someone inputs their name and email address they will get a well rounded overview of the program I have described. All I do is drive traffic to it through advertising and let the system do it's job. People like what they see they call you. No selling involved. No different then advertising a fiscal store, people walk in and walk out with their purchase. You are not even required to buy the products in order to market them.

Because of the amount of content you'll be getting I don't want you to get overwhelmed so you'll be getting the information over a 6 day period, about an hour of information each day.

If you can find the time I'm quit positive you will find it all very interesting and educational. The information will be presented to you in video, audio, and text format.

Could our meeting be one of those instances, where as the saying goes, "the lord works in mysterious ways?"

Take care Julie and I wish you, your daughter and grand daughter a happy and fulfilling life.

Your new friend.

Randy

PS

There is money to be made in writing your own e-books and you just may be on to something with the lasting effects of child abuse. That is a subject that everyone needs to understand to make the world a better place.

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