Hello Bogdan...that is why positive thinking is so important

  Happy Holidays...Larry

Bogdan, Thank you for these thoughts posted by you and others. This is a very large forums and apparently many are afraid to post. Is that a pun? ? ? I very much like Joe's quote of Ralph Waldo Emerson. Too many come to Adlandpro and let fear stop them in their tracks before they get going. If only they understood just to do a little each day.....add a friend, make a forum, put up an ad or whatever. It does not hapen overnight. It just took me two yers to build up enough courage to have my name put up for POTW.

Hi Mary,

People generally worry too much what others think. If they were just doing what makes them happy, they would be also making others happier as happy person infects others with their happiness.

Too many people are trying to control circumstances as opposed to create them, hence the doubts and fears. If person wants to create something they have more control over this than of what others will do or say.

To get rid of doubts, one has to stop listing and just do what's right for them.

Bogdan

Bogdan, What an insight you have into human nature. What you discribe is a person labeled, "Co-dependent" someone who wishes to control circumstances around them. If they know they can't they become fearful of what others will think when they fall short. Happiness is contagious and so is fear as you so nicely have stated. When applied to business, when we become excited about what we promote, others pick up the excitement. I never truely believed in what I promoted til I came across uvme.biz. Immediately I was attracted to it and all fear has disipated as I could care less what others think of the business. For me its good for others not so.