Hi Everyone, As far as domestic violence it is of my view that it takes two (2) PEOPLE TO MAKE AN ARGUMENT MOTHERS-IN-LAW EXCLUDED. Unless of course they want to involve themselves and it usually is the mother of the son who gets involved. And although women are strong it is the man who is the stronger in muscle than the women. And it is that through frustration that men get violent. However it is my fervent belief that all couples should have marriage counselling before they get married. And through that counselling do they find out if they are suitable or not. Getting married has all the emotions but whebn you think about that you are going to spend the rest of your life with this person you wonder whether you can go the distance. It is all very good to runaway with the idea and the romance of it all. But I wish more people would take their time about it all and consider the consequences of it all. As the saying goes " A month of happiness to a lifetime of hell". But as I said earlier it takes 2 to make an argument so if the other person doesnot argue then what is it all about. Life is way too short to be arguing all the time. Please everyone and take note what I am saying. Life is definitely way too short. Let us be friends whether wife or husband girld friends or mates(pals) please stop arguing. Helen
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