Dear kathy,
I am very happy you invited me to this forum, which I believe affects almost every one in this community in one way or the other. I am very much against domestic violence, either as a form of culture, social adherence nor way of life.
The values of marriage, are enhanced when there is no religious divide. When there is self respect and discipline at home,and when Love is regarded as a toll for enrichment, but not as an inheritance from God.
Violence comes with loss of trust and confidence in one another. The secret home that united you both in the first place. Life is a down Hill, when influence from unworthy friends, finds its place in a family home. To begin we have to start from Christ. That´s the only and most guaranteed way.
I don´t mean that other worthy religions , do not have merits in empowering a just relationship, but its better to begin from what we know and understand better. Life is a paradox without marriage. Marriage, should not only be a reference between Man and woman, but an expression of thoughts within ourselves. The Marriage of Words and expressions that build our environment.
Across the continents, we will continue to see extreme violence and radical attitudes towards one another. This is more like a revolution of principles. A desire to dominate . We are strangers to one another, when we place our selfish interest above the pledge to love each other for better and for worse. Divorce is not the best answer. Its just a way to flee from our commitments.
Ok Kathy,I stop here for now. Its great to reach out to others on good forums as this.
Pierre Louma
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