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Rose
6/18/2007 10:59:11 AM
   
The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.
I turned round to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.
She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose.
I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"
I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze.
"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.
She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..."
"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.
"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me.
After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.
Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went.
She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.
At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet.
I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this
whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know."
As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, "We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing
There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.
We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it!
There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.
If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.
Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets.
The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets."
She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."
She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.
One week after graduation Rose died  peacefully in her sleep.
Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be
When you finish reading this, please send this peaceful word of advice to your friends and family, they'll really enjoy it!
These words have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.
REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
We make a Living by what we get, We make a Life by what we give.
God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
"Good friends are like stars.........You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.






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Re: Rose
6/18/2007 12:22:40 PM

Hi Vincent,

Thank you so much, my Friend, for sharing these priceless memories of a truly amazing woman.

It is a shame that we so often ignore the wisdom in the words of someone who is somewhat older.  We will never know just what we are missing.

Thanks Again My Friend,

Phil

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WE MAY MEET ON OUR JOURNEYS

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The Rose - Bette Midler

“There may be trouble all around, but I am calling you to a place of peace. Be still and know that I am God. Come to Me, and I will give you wisdom, strength, and grace for everything you face." Psalm 46:10
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Re: Rose
6/18/2007 2:25:24 PM
    Thanks Phil and I hope you had a great Father's day.
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Re: Rose
6/18/2007 2:47:53 PM

 Walking Garbage CanHi Vincent,

  This was fantastic.  I'm sure you have heard about the 102 year old woman that recently scored a Hole-In-One.  Jay Leno had her on his show about a month ago.  He asked her when she began playing golf and I believe she said at the age of eighty-five.  She decided one day that waiting for death was too boring, so she got together with some friends at her retirement village and they went to the golf course.  People of course laughed at seeing these old ladies trying to play golf, but she kept at it.  She began playing three times a week.  Jay asked her if she played nine holes.  She responded,"Dear Lord no, if you are not going to finish what you start, there is no sense starting."

He asked her how her health was and she said that it was much better than it was at eighty-five.  I am 65.  I have good days and bad days, however I take them as they come.  I believe that AdlandPro Community keeps me young because no one here asks you what your age is.  We are all friends and help one another, but the main thing is, there is always someone that you can talk with.  Rose is definetely an inspiration and I wish I could remember the 102 year old golfers name, because here is a case where she took up the sport when most people sit by their T.V.'s and {Remember When.}  When is now.  As long as you are alive and you wish you could do something, it's up to you to make that wish come true.  That is, of course, unless you are Paris Hilton and you wish you could go home.

God Bless You

Mike Easter Cross 

 

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Re: Rose
6/18/2007 6:02:36 PM
Thank you so much for this! My favorite job of all time was as a part time recreation center helper at a senior center in Santa Monica on the beach.
Talk about young at heart seniors. I loved talking to people who had been young during the WWII era.
They had a swing dance band come evry Monday and boy-oh-boy-those seniors danced my feet off-I was the one running to sit down between dance numbers.
That kind of elegance, grace and solid common sense will probably never be seen again.
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