I have run a few workshops on meditation and life skills. I called the workshop "Butterflies to Eagles".
One of the Exercises I used in the workshop is a GREAT way to find out a little about yourself that maybe you did not know. Everyone should do an Exercise like this "before" you set your goals, because your goals have to be in line with your values or you wont give 100% to obtain the goal.
Below is a "Value Purchasing" Exercise for you to complete.
In order to avoid cheating you have to request me to email you, through adland, the results formula. I do not need to know your score, so take 45 minutes to do this and you will find it most revealing.
Neil
Butterflies and Eagles (level 1)
Breaking out of your cocoon.
Value Purchasing Exercise
Below is a list of 34 items on which you may spend an imaginary $2,000. Read the list carefully.
In the space to the right of each item write down how much money you would spend to buy that item
on the open market. Only allocate money to those items you really want to have. Imagine you have
nothing now. Spend all of the $2,000. No more, no less. If you find you have over-spent, go back
over the list and reallocate. Do the same if you have under-spent.
ITEMS TO BE BOUGHT AMOUNT BUDGETED
1. A chance to rid the world of prejudice and bigotry.
2. To be able to serve the sick or needy and/or to assist others in leading more fulfilling lives.
3. The guarantee of becoming a famous figure (movie star, sports hero, astronaut, author).
4. To create and actualize a proposal that triples your companies earnings.
5. A daily massage, and the world's finest cuisine from the world's best chef.
6. Perfect insight into the meaning of life.
7. To lead your life being consistent in thought, word and action.
8. The opportunity to always set your own working conditions and do your own thing without anyone directing you.
9. To be one of the richest people in the world.
10. To be President Prime Minister or King of any Country
11. A perfect relationship.
12. A house overlooking a beautiful view, filled with your favorite works of art.
13. To be one of the most attractive people in the world.
14. To live without illness until death.
15. Peace of Mind.
16. The most complete library of great books for your own private use.
17. Harmony with God, doing God's work.
18. A way to create fairness and equal opportunity around the world.
19. The resources to be able to establish a foundation that truly serves people.
20. To be chosen Outstanding Person of the year in your field and be praised in every news paper in the world.
21. To set and achieve a near impossible goal.
22. Time with nothing to do but enjoy yourself, with all needs and desires automatically met.
23. To be one of the wisest people in the world.
24. To have "honesty serum" in the worlds water supply.
25. To be emotionally and financially independent of others.
26. To own an Alaskan Oilfield.
27. To influence the lives of people throughout the world.
28. To perfectly express your loving and caring
29. Unlimited travel and tickets to attend any concert, play, opera, art show or ballet.
30. A total makeover: new hairstyle, whole new wardrobe, yearly privileges at a luxury beauty spa, Plastic surgery where wanted.
31. To be in great physical shape.
32. To feel good about yourself and express your feelings comfortably.
33. To absorb knowledge easily and then retain it and to be able to express it well.
34. Unlimited time to spend with great spiritual leaders, past or present.
Okay- once you have carefully allocated an amount for the items that appeal to your values....
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For those who have not done this test yet - please take the time to do it. See how valuable it really is to your personal goal planning! The result page is hosted on the above link!
The link above has the complete test on one page.... results page as well.... just be sure NOT to cheat !
Do the test fully before you check out the answers.
Here it the link again!
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LOL - I placed the result page on a free dating page.
For those with Firewalls that block some links showing up here at Adland
... here it is written.
http://www.clubyeah.com/dating/doverblue