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Hello my friends,
My husband Jonathan and myself want to give you ideas of how to treat one another in your marriages. It is the small things that count in a relationship.Even as small as just a touch.
Here are some examples-
When you caress your spouse's hand, play with
their feet, rub their shoulders, or stroke their
cheek, there's a moment there (if you do it
RIGHT) when your spouse knows that you are
completely connected with them. Fill your
marriage with a few of those moments each day and
your relationship will begin to change.
Now I don't want to leave you hanging...wondering
what you're going to say and how you're going to
touch. I figure if there's 50 ways to leave your
lover, there must be at least as many ways to
touch them or talk to them. So here's my "50
ways" list. Don't be overwhelmed. I created 50 so
you would have options. Once again, my challenge
to you is to pick 2; in the next 24 hours do 1
Talk Charge and 1 Touch Charge.
50 WAYS TO TALK AND TOUCH LIST
1. Express confidence in one of your spouse's
decisions
2. Share dessert with one fork
3. What was "your song" when you were dating?
Call your spouse and sing it to them.
4. Surprise visit your spouse at their office or
home and give them a kiss... and then leave.
5. Play footsie next time you sit together
6. Learn a new joke today and share it with your
spouse
7. Ask how your spouse's day went... and really
listen
8. Kiss your spouse upon waking
9. Kiss your spouse before sleeping
10. Caress your spouse's hand
11. Touch your spouse's cheek or hand while
driving
12. Rub shoulders next time you sit next to each
other
13. Sit on your spouse's lap or sit them on yours
14. Compliment something your spouse is wearing
15. Call your spouse out of the blue to let them
know you are thinking of them
16. Give your spouse a neck or shoulder massage
17. Share a story from the news or your day that
you thought was interesting
18. What about dancing before dinner? No one's
looking.
19. Tell your spouse that if you had to do it all
over again, you'd choose them
20. Share a problem - thank your spouse for their
concern
21. Play with your spouse's hair while talking in
bed
22. Fall asleep holding hands
23. Remind your spouse to drive safely next time
they leave the house
24. Call your spouse at work with the latest
news.
25. Have a tickle "fight"
26. Say "I'm sorry" about a mistake you recently
made
27. Think of 3 ways your spouse has made you a
better person ... tell them now
28. Compliment your spouse on your favorite
physical trait
29. Play Twister and let yourself laugh out loud
30. Look at your spouse when they are unaware of
your gaze ... share your feelings
31. Share what you most admire about your spouse
32. Have a "remember when?" moment.
33. Thank your spouse for helping you through a
challenging time in your life
34. Find a reason to touch your spouse when you
are in the same room
35. Dig out the wedding album and reminisce
36. Hold hands under the table
37. Brush your mate's hair out of his/her eyes
38. Straighten his tie, being sure to touch him
with love
39. Button or zip her dress, being sure to touch
her with love
40. Knead the same dough together
41. Kiss in the elevator when no one is looking
42. Express confidence in your spouse's ability
to overcome a problem
43. Listen to your spouse's worries - ask how you
can help
44. Make your spouse's lunch for the day ...
deliver it with a kiss
45. Send your spouse a fax with your special
"code words" for I Love You!
46. Turn off your spouse's alarm clock - wake
them with a massage
47. Kiss the back of your spouse's neck while
he/she is reading
48. Before parting, tell your spouse you can't
wait to see him/her again
49. An extra hug for no reason at all never hurt
anyone
50. "Spoon" your mate while sleeping
My husband and I are continually growing so we may always love eachother.
Jonathan and Kathy Hamilton
simikathy.com
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