Defeating Your Adversary: YOUR EGO!
Hello Kathy,
I going to shoot straight from the hip/heart here. This thread really got me thinking; "does anybody know what a poltergiest is?" I'll bet that story really got some Ooohhs and Aaahhs at his JV meeting what do you think?
Oooopps, thinking is my ego's best friend. So, here is an excerpt from, 'YOU CAN'T AFFORD THE LUXURY OF A NEGATIVE THOUGHT' by John-Roger and Peter McWilliams.
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Altitude and Attitude
Another "closed loop" (we like to think of them as upward spirals) is the one of altitude and attitude. When "stuck" in something you don't like, you can either change the altitude or the attitude and, as Perer Pan would say, "U-u-u-u-up you'll go!
Altitude is our viewing point, the perspective we have. The higher our viewing point, the more we can see. The more we can see, the more information we have. The more information we have, the better we can make a well-informed decisioin.
The question that needs deciding is, "Shall I think negatively about this moment or not?" We maintain that, with enough altitude, your spontaneous response will be, "or not." [Any thought that includes the Devil, IS, in fact, negative.]
Have you ever been in a situation that seemed awful at the time, but eventually led to something wonderful? If you knew, at that time, that the bad situation would eventually lead to a much better one, would you have wasted all that energy feeling bad about it? Probably not.
What if all situations in life were like that? What if there was a reason behind all movement, a plan behind the action? What if, with sufficient altitude, you could see the plan? Not necessarily the way in which every detail will come to pass--what a dull life it would be if we knew precisely what the future held--but more a general sense that "something good will come from this."
Attitude is the way we approach things--our point of view. Do you look at life as an adventure to be enjoyed or a problem to be solved? There are infinite possibilities for living in either Adventureland or Problem City. The choice, as we've pointed out numerous times before, is yours. The key is your attitude.
The connection between attitude and altitude is easy to see. If we have a good attitude, our altitude will lift, and if we have an elevated altitude, our attitude will rise. (The reverse, by the way, is also true. Spirals go up or down, and seem to be infinite in either direction.)
You can add upward momentum by raising either your attitude or your altitude.
Altitude is raised through meditation, contemplation, prayer, spiritual exercises, creativity, service--connecting directly in some way with the uplifting energy of life.
Attitude is lifted through inspiring lectures, reading, seminars, therapy, support groups, books, movies, TV shows--learning concepts and techniques that naturally lead to an enlightened approach.
If you lift the attitude, the altitude will lift. If you raise the altitude, the attitude will lift. Either way, comme tu veux (it's up to you).
Of course, doing things to lift both attitude and altitude will put you on what is technically known as an upward hyper-spiral, or, as it's more commonly known, joy.
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Which makes more sense Kathy, spending your time and energy making war on some (and I know there are people who read this forum that will call this blasphemy) man-made character called the Devil because it makes a better story -- or -- using that same time raising your alltitude to get a better view? And, do you think people who are constantly at war with the Devil are on upward spiral or down?
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Another excerpt:
Nothing Is Too Good to Be True
Ready for a pop quiz? OK. Consider this statement: "If something is too good to be true, it is."
Pop quiz question: "What does it refer to?"
(A) "too good" (If something is too good to be true, it is, therefore, not true.)
(B) "true" (If something is too good to be true, it is true.)
BZZZZZZZZZZZ. Time"s up.
The correct answer is (B): if something is too good to be true, it probably is true. The answer most people spontaneously arrive at, however, is (A).
LESSON: Negative thoughts lead to negative assumptions!
SCORING: Give yourself 50 points if you chose answer (A). Give yourself 50 points if you chose answer (B). Give yourself 100 points for taking the test.
GRADING: If you got more than 20 points, congratulations! You get an A+. Give yourself a gold star. Excellent work. Superb. Bravo. Hurrah! Good for you.
That's the pop quiz. How did you do?
Too Good to be true?
It is.
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The Devil doesn't exsist except in your mind. Too good to be true?
Is that shocking enough for you Beautiful Lady?