Alternatively, for all hubbies, if you've concrete comments, feel free to post. I bumped onto this amazing secrets on how to improve wife - husband (kind-of stuff) quality time. I beginning to learn some excitements and indeed, when I looked back, I wondered what I had been missing once upon a time... For wife to her husband. Gift your hubby a gift he'll absolutely adore - that is - YOURSELF!! Make his heart flip by having sex that's totally focused on his pleasure? Ah yes, we hear you say, that's all splendid. I'm sure he will be delighted, but what's in it for me? (A wife might ask). "Plenty." says counselling psychologist Zsusi Stekel. "It's rewarding to please someone you love. Plus, on a basic level, we all want to know we're the best at sex and, by producing an extreme reaction in your partner, you'll increase your own sexual self-esteem." So what are you waiting for (all wives)? Do yourself a pleasure favour and get into the sack! SEX PRESENT ONE - The Anticipation For a man who... Loves to play games. The present: A game that is most definitely not for the whole family! Wrapping: Lock the doors, draw the curtains and create a sexy scavenger hunt in your house (big hotel will do if you don't have a big and spacy house). Scatter sensual presents such as a stocking, G-string or a can of whipped cream throughout your home and attach a sexy note to each one. The notes should give a clue as to where he'll find the next present. The final clue will tell him where to find you... Presentation: Hide yourself somewhere unexpected (not the bedroom) and sensuous (not the broom cupboard) and wait for him to come to you. The XXX-tra special bow on top: Give him a time limit. Tell him if he doesn't find you within 10 minutes he loses and you're going to spend the rest of the night watching TV. Now watch him run the two-minutes mile! Stay tune for the next PRESENT - The Tease, on the same thread...

I've heard another great idea...Make one day all about the wife's pleasure and don't expect her to do anything for you, then the next day is all about the man's pleasure, then the next day is for having sex together. Then both of you will look forward to every day, hopefully, and neither person will need to be reminded. Actually, there's only one sentence you need to say to a woman, just 9 words, and she'll be nice to you all the time and make you good food and everything.

Okay, can you spell out the 9 words before I continue with the next part - The Tease...

Sex Present Two: The Tease For man who... Likes to be treated mean and kept keen. The present: Foreplay that preeps him for by an amazing, expolosive orgasm. Wrapping: Read your lover's 'I'm about to come' signs. Every man is slightly different, but the tell-tale signs are his buttocks and thigh muscles clenching and his breathing becoming rapid and heavy. Stimulate him, and just before his moment of no return, curb his climax by squeezing just below the tip. Beverly Whipple, sex researcher and author of "The G-Spot," suggest: "Use plenty of pressure - it won't hurt him." After the pause, more foreplay will put hime back on the track. Presentation: The secret to increasing his orgasm from firecracker to nuclear reactor is to take two steps forward in upping his arousal before taking one step back. "As a man approaches orgasm, his muscles tense up," explains Whipple. "Each time you bring him close to climax then back off, those muscles become more taut. When they finally release (which is what causes the orgasmic feeling), the sensation is magnified." Then, when's he begging you to take him over the edge, go ahead and let him see just how powerful his ecstacy can be. The xxx-tra special bow on top: Kate, 23, an actress, says: "I loosely tied my partner's wrists together then teased him with my hands and mouth until he was on the brink of blast-off. Then, I backed off for a few minutes. "After three rounds of teasing, he was pleading me to carry on. When I finally let him have his wish, he had the most intense orgasm I've seen." Can't get enough? Beware of the 3rd Present: The Slow Build.

The 9 words are: "It's time for me to taste your ----- now." That's all women want, then do it for a long time and do it fantastically so she doesn't pull the blanket over your head and think about Johnny Depp. We don't think about what to cook for your dinner all the time, we also have crude fantasies where we just wanna see the top of your head and your eyebrows, and for longer than 2 minutes. Also, do weird little things like lick her eyelids and armpits (prior to the above), and notice every detail such as the color of her eye-shadow and her earrings, we get all dolled up for you guys so you better notice! And you guys need to make more noises in bed, if that's what you want from us, then you better make your fair share of noises. Tell us you think about us when you're at work or when you're driving or taking a shower, tell us how you feel and what you think about in every detail. Even the most intelligent articulate men seem to lose their ability to communicate when it's most important. If your woman leaves you for a less attractive or less intelligent man, maybe it's because he said all the right things and treated her like a princess and spent more time tasting her and noticing all her glorious details. What I do to turn my man on is...I leave erotic messages on his voice mail at his work number late at night so when he gets to work in the morning, that's the first thing he hears. I like to imagine him checking his messages and smiling for the rest of the day and maybe listening to it again when he's not busy, and needing to sit behind his desk for a few moments.