Have you ever been so mad at someone who has been wishing bad things for you? So mad you want to wish bad things for them? I have some one in my life who constantly wants "to ruin" my life. Yes, they do need a hobby. I have tried ignoring them. I was told it would hurt their feelings like little bully children. Well, Yes it does hurt their feelings and they still wish me even more bad luck. How can you get in trouble ignoring some ones antics. Now since they can't get to me, my husband, or my daughter. They have gone to my church and told lies about me there. They are going to my in-laws and told them lies about me there. They have made themselves look like really mean and foolish people. Ill wishes come out of jealousy. I wish these people no harm, It would make me very happy to see them happy. So instead of wishing ill wishes to people and trying to get back at them, we can take a moment out of our busy day and wish them all that they wish for others. I wish all of you here good things in your life. Diana

Hi Diana, When people wish that bad things happen to others, they only make themselves miserable. They are the ones who lose. They can't affect lives of others by wishing that bad things happen to them, but they affect their own health. Unforgiveness is one of the greatest inhibitors of love and giving. At the same time major cause of our physical health issues. If you want to punish others, you are holding inside of you bitter feelings which are eating you alive. Check out this site http://www.brucelipton.com/. This is work of a doctor who worked with genes for most of his life and he believes that our feelings (energy) are shaping our lives. Check out also this site to see what bad feelings and good feelings are doing to water. http://www.whatthebleep.com/crystals/ Bogdan Fiedur

I thank you for your reply. I do not want to punish them at all. I wish they could have the peace in their lives that I do. I do forgive them and hold no bitter feelings for them. God has been wonderfull to me and my family.