Why Law of Attraction Fails: 5 Reasons
The Secret has become a rage these days.
Everybody is talking about it. Are you too?
Law of attraction has been here for thousands of years and has been discussed for quite some time now.
In brief, the law of attraction says that it is you who decides what
kind of life you will lead.
What you focus on becomes a reality.
If you
accept this, you will never criticize people or any other external
factor for the kind of life you are leading.
Hence you can create your
life in any manner.
The sky is the limit.
To practice the law of attraction you must have the vision as to
what you really and want and be passionate about it.
Most people lack
the intention to fulfill what they desire to do.
For example, you want to be rich, have a lovely relationship and a
magnificent career. You are excited and you want to see results fast.
But nothing happens in the beginning. This is because the intensity of
your intention is not strong enough. Once you have this, you can
attract what you want.
Some intentions take much longer to manifest.
Some of the reasons could be:
1. If you lose focus you lose it all.
You have to put energy if you
want to create something.
In the movie it has been repeated that you
have the power to create.
In other words, the more you think about a
concept the more you realize it. Whatever you focus on expands.
The
manifestation will also be as strong as your intention is.
Act on what
you want.
Otherwise only intention will do you no good.
2. Intentions alone are not the key.
You have to be passionate about
them.
We mostly focus on what others desire and don’t pay heed to what
we want.
Passion is what adds the X factor to the concept you want to
create.
If you are not passionate or excited about you goals, you
probably are wrong about wanting them.
3. Make your intentions very clear.
The clarity should be to the
highest level possible.
For example, one of my friends wanted a loving
partner.
She wrote all qualities she wanted in her partner.
She had him
only thing he turned to be gay.
She forgot to specify this in her
notes.
Hence let not your intentions be unclear.
If you want to be
rich, write down how much you want to earn and by when. This will give
you a greater focus.
4. You accidentally cancel your intention.
How might you do that?
By
having conflicting beliefs!
Ok - how many times have I talked about
this, right?
If your intent is to attract wealth and you hold beliefs
like, “I don’t deserve to have money, I’m not good enough/smart enough,
I’ll always have money problems, then you’ll be short-circuiting the
power of your thoughts by neutralizing your creating energy.
That’s
like putting a dam in the middle of a flowing stream.
That’s why I
continue to advocate the critical value of self-awareness work -
getting to know who you really are.
The good news is that once you
identify conflicting beliefs you can transform them with the right
tools.
5. You may even sabotage your relationship.
Any negative emotion
like fear, anger, jealousy etc will neutralize your intentions.
If you
notice these qualities, nip them in the bud.
Shift focus.
Try to
remember all the good things that you have received till now.
Be
thankful to whatever you have received.
Be very choosy as to what you
tell others.
People’s negativity might also affect you.
Hence when you wake up, imagine things you want to create that day.