Attitude and Action
Trina L.C.
Sonnenberg
I remember a time, about 15 years ago, when my eldest
son would take a little crocheted bag to bed with him; this coin purse sized bag
was filled with small polished rocks. He was given this bag of rocks, by his
step-mother, to keep bad dreams away.
You and I know that a little bag of rocks can do nothing to
prevent bad dreams, but my boy didn't know any such thing, at the tender age of
four. In his mind, all he knew was that he was doing something about what he
perceived to be a problem... bad dreams. Whether or not the bag of rocks worked
to keep bad dreams from his sleep, he felt good about the fact that he was
problem solving, not just complaining or hoping that someone else would just fix
it for him, or even hoping that if he ignored it it would go away on its own. He
was being proactive. I'd even say that it was probably his attitude of action,
more than anything, that lent to his restful sleep.
I get the same sense
of accomplishment/satisfaction when I do what I do: righting wrongs when I am
able, standing up for myself and others when I feel that I/They have been
treated unfairly, and warning people about shady things, online and off. Just as
I am not the type of person who can see a car accident and keep driving, I am
not the kind of person who can see an injustice and pretend I didn't see it. I
am a take action person. I feel good about the fact that I am doing something.
For example: Recently, I have become embroiled in local political
affairs. I set out to exercise my right as a citizen, to object to something
happening next door to my home. While investigating, attempting to stop this
action, I found something I really didn't expect to find, at least not as
obvious as it was. Something like this you'd think would've been better hidden
from scrutiny, but it was pretty blatant. I found corruption involving the mayor
of our fair town.
I found this information and felt that it should be
exposed. I can't ignore it, and it most definitely will not go away on its own.
So, I am attempting to do the right thing, and get others involved in righting
this wrong. After all, the law was broken, and the people of this town have the
right to know about it and do something about it.
However, my
motivations have been called into question, by our mayor and her supporters,
being that I have had past conflicts with the woman who is now our mayor;
personal conflicts. Sadly, this detracts from the seriousness of what I am
trying to say. My credibility is under attack, so the people aren't listening to
what I'm saying, they're just wrapped up in the fact that I am the one who is
saying it and who I am saying it about.
My reputation is very important
to me; I've worked very hard at building a good one. Although it's been taking a
beating, I will not yield. I believe that what I am doing is the right thing to
do, regardless of what others may think and say. I am satisfied with the fact
that I am doing something positive about something negative.
If you
really believe in what you're doing, and you take positive action, you can't
help but succeed. That success perpetuates itself, and you have to feel good
about what you've done, especially if what you've accomplished has helped even
one other person.
I don't like to see others taken advantage of; this is
the problem. I try to expose those who would take advantage of others for who
and what they are. This is my positive action. What is my reward? I am rewarded
every time I receive an email, phone call, or I'm stopped in the street and
someone says thank you. I know that what I've done has helped someone else.
Taking positive action, whether it be in personal matters, business
dealings, or even politics is the only way to get the job done.
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