You make a difference!
Author Unknown

A high school teacher decided to honor all of her students by telling them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First she told each of them how they had made a difference to her and the class.

Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters, which read, 'Who I Am Makes a Difference.'

Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt.

Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, 'We're doing a class project on recognition, and we'd like you to go out, find somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report back to me and tell me what happened.'

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genius.

The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss said, 'Well sure.' The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on his boss's jacket above his heart. As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, 'Would you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people.'

That night the boss came home to his 14-year old son and sat him down. He said, 'The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius. Imagine. He thinks I'm creative genius.'

'Then he put this blue ribbon that says, 'Who I Am Makes A Difference' on my jacket above my heart. He gave me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and thought of you. I want to honor you. My days are really hectic and when I come home I don't pay a lot of attention to you.

Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!'

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn't stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, 'I was planning on committing suicide tomorrow, Dad, because I didn't think you loved me. Now I know you care. This is the happiest day I've known.'

The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees know that they made a difference.

The junior executive helped several other young people with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his life - one being the boss' son. And the young boy and his classmates learned a valuable lesson.

So who you are DOES make a difference and I wanted you to know that.

Hi Beth

Thank you for sharing this very inspiring story with us all here.

Bj

Hi Beth

I had to come back and tell you this has reminded me of a situation here in my town.

A mother and father of a 14 year old, have divorced, the father has remarried.  The new wife says, "he is not your son".  Have a dna test done.  And so they do.  And sure enough, the 14 is not his biological son. 

So now, the new wife says," he, the 14, is no longer welcomed at our home, and the Man who has raised him, cared for him all of his 14 years, says ok.

What is a 14 year old to do, what is he to think?  This man who has raised him as his own, thought he was his own, has now turned his back on his son.  The only father this boy has known.

What do you tell a 14 year old to do, in these circumstances? 

I do not know this family personally, but I know the real father, and he is now hit with, 14 years back child support, by the man who has raised him all these years.

And that is all beside the point.  What I worry about, is the 14 year old, who has now been disowned. 

How can a person just walk out of his son's, he has raised, life?  How is it so easy to turn his back.  Was there love there once, for this boy?  Can he just turn it off like yesterdays news?

I just wanted to share this with you all.  And to tell everyone, this boy needs all the prayers and quidance he can get at this time in his life.

Thanks to all who read this and prays for this forgotten 14 year old.

Bj