Welcome! In our lives we are looking for businesses, things, and people to define us. The simple truth is we were already defined. Unqiue from the time we were first born. We are human to look for others to define us. It is okay. I remember being a little girl in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. I was four and going to my first ballet classes. I had always been mommy's girl. Oh, my gosh, my sister was born about a year earlier. I was suffering from the being "the only child'" and spoiled. Because I was the "First born" and spoiled. I did not understand, nor care, at that time why I was straved for attention. But, everytime my family came over I would show off the lastest twirl I had learned in class. Or, make them watch me slide across the hardwood floor in my newest pair of jeans dad had bought me. See, in my eyes of four, my mother had just defined me. My sister was born and she was spending more time with her. I never thought in my little experienced four year life that my mother would put someone else above me. She was spending more time, love, and even the way she talked was more tender with my sister. All I knew was that I was not so good anymore. My mom was always telling me I was not being good enough for her. My dad seemed to understand. He knew why I was acting up. He knew why I was starved for attention So, I naturally, gravitated to the person who knew me and understood. He had been taking the backseat with mom since I was born. He had plenty of time to have his own self discovery. To find out about himself and learn from the experiences of marriage, children, and etc. That was when I became "Daddies girl". He was gracious enough to become my friend when I needed him the most. Even though I took mom's time away from him. What if we thought about MLM like a marriage? We search around for the perfect business. Finally we like a business, settle down, and sign the dotted line. Make the commitment in investment or time. Finally, our investment and time has paid off. We are getting people signing up under us. First person to sign with us is our first baby. They believe in us. Listen to everything we say. They make mistakes and come to us to help. We guide them through their business. We try to help as much as possible. So, that one day, when they grow up. They have all the tools for their business. So, they can have babies of their own. What happens to the first baby when the second is grown? I have noticed that in MLM's most grow so fast. The sponsor is kind of like being a single mom and dad. In my opinion, in order to have a successful at home business, you need a mom and pop team. Or, the first child might go off to find their dad. Maybe with in the company they started (different sponsor). Or, in a different business (trouble run away). And the process for your first kid will get burned with many bad MLM companies.