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 Topic: START NOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM
 Forum: The Power of Positive Thinking!
Topic created by: Marilyn L M.
Started: Oct 03 2008
Replies: 3
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Marilyn L Martin (user id: 259882) is offline. Last active: 11/25/2008 2:24:37 PM Marilyn L Martin
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START NOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM
Posted: Oct 03 2008 09:44 PM

Be determined to improve your self esteem and you are on your way to great achievement.

Do not let a low self esteem ruin your life. The way you think about yourself determines how you interact with others.

What are some examples of low self esteem aspects in your mind that you need improvement on?

1. Nothing you do seems to go right
2. You believe that most people do not like you.
3. You believe that you are not attractive.
4. You choose something and it turns out to be the worst one.
5. You are afraid to converse with others for fear that what you say might not make sense.
6. You feel swallowed up in a whirlpool of frustration.
What’s wrong with you? Your thoughts, actually.

Stop thinking that the world is closing in on you. Get determined to achieve what you desire. Stop blaming other people for your misfortunes. The world is not your problem, you are your own problem.

From this moment on, begin the process of self esteem improvement. Think the right way and be determined to win, and win you will. Just remember that success never comes easily and that is why determination is its counterpart.

Oftentimes, one gets to the brink of success and with just a little disappointment or setback, they lose heart and give up too easily and too soon. A surefire candidate to low self esteem improvement. Who knows what great things might have been achieved if only they had persevered.

Without a high self esteem, your life could be rather boring. Change your thinking and begin to see yourself on top of the world. Make a very special effort to be what you really want to be.

You have to seriously decide either to remain in a miserable state of low self esteem, or acquire self esteem improvement and develop a high self esteem with good character and self image.

The origin of low self esteem.

A low self esteem could begin way back in childhood when children are made to believe that they are worthless. Their self confidence is eroded and they succumb to the idea that they can never achieve success in anything that they do. They were picked on, laughed at, pushed around, called ugly names, and treated with disdain. No wonder they grew up to be full of resentment.

If that was your experience, it is time you cut yourself loose from that mindset and do self esteem improvement. Start reading about the life of successful persons and you will soon discover that many of them had such low self esteem that they could not even complete an elementary education.

Many decided to override their low self esteem and improve their attitude, whatever it took. They became some of the greatest men and women that ever lived.

Low self esteem has never helped anyone else and it sure will not help you. It can only drive you into depression, anger, grudge, fear and all the other evils that it generates.

Re-program your thinking and control your state of mind. You must believe that you are worth much more than you think or you will remain at the foot of the ladder and never make an attempt to climb it.

Do not waste your life away with feelings of inadequacies. Instead, think of ways to go about self esteem improvement. Success is yours, just reach out and grasp it.

Make a list of statements to read every single day, and this will help to change that negative, low self esteem mindset. Make sure to use "I Am..." statements, such as;

1) I am a winner

2) I am a good person inside and out, and I love myself unconditionally.

3) I am a successful person

Make today a great day and start changing your mindset now!

Marilyn


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Re: START NOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM
Posted: Oct 05 2008 10:10 PM
Hi MarilynSmiley I just signed out and then saw in my inbox that you had posted this, and as usual something great to read, yes I do feel low today.......yes letting negative thoughts overtake me. But I'm glad I decided to sign back in and read, thank youSmiley
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Re: START NOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM
Posted: Oct 07 2008 01:18 AM




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