COMMUNION

AS AN ADVANCED RELATIONSHIP

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Dear Friends,

The aim of this topic  is to direct our attention to a customary sources of our  daily : security & support & emotional & psychics & social good and positive, but also contemporary problematic and negative feelings and experiences.   OUR RELATIONSHIPS DESERVE TO BE REDEFINED and also WE DESERVE to put our creativity, our opened hearts and good will to improve them   .

Family as a basic relationship

As the first amongst an ocean of others, FAMILY is a basic and the most interesting kind of relationships, primarily due it`s nature which doesn`t allow us any kind of choice at the moment of our conception and birth. My intention is not to bring here a list of sociological, psychological etc. definitions related to any possible relationships within the family.

My favorite Quote is :  PLAY NAKED - LIFE IS SHORT.

So, I`ll be free to start this topic as I gladly use to say "from my own shoes".

My story will be as short as is possible and my conclusions based on my experience will be as clear as is possible.

A family in which I was born deserves a lot of blessings. Minimal for two reasons.

First : I didn`t have a good luck to experience as we were blessed family (so, blessings can never overflow)

Second : My so different parents were desired teachers for me; but - what a great pity! I can say this TODAY after 46 years suffering due my surfing between them, BETWEEN ASTOUNDED EARTH (father) and WIDE but far away SKY (mother).

My suffering start to cease when I was blessed to understand that any trial to reconcile what is irreconcilable, is just wasting of energy and time. Next higher level of my recognition what my role in this family is (and also this my lifetime), brought me something what I call : MY PERFECTLY DESIGNED MIRROR. Blessed with it I STOPED DIGGING THROUGH ALL DARK ELEMENTS OF MY PARENTES NATURE, DEVOTED ALL FURTHER TIME TO MY OWN DARKNES. This came THROUGH conclusion : I CANN`T SEE MY INNER DARK except ON FACES AND THROUGH  THE ACTIONS OF ALL THAT ARE CLOSE TO ME.

(For those in love with philosophers, I can recommend Ernest Bloch and his excellent existentialistic discussion "Tübingen`s Introduction in Philosophy", and a short citation : " I AM, but I don`t have myself. All what is I AM it is inside, in darkness and to have a consciously look at itself, it has to go out!" )

WHAT ABOUT YOU ?

Dear Georgios,

It`s a great honor to have your post as the first on my first forum`s topic. Like a child, I am jumping and singing: THANK YOU GEORGIOS!

Related to your statement about  bad and even worse movements on global plane, I`d like to encourage you to expect  that a Phoenix of our human nature is coming to be born from our ashes AND TO FLY AGAIN in all it`s beauty! ONLY WHAT CAN COME AS A CONSEQUENCE of this ultimate struggle between OUR INNER AND OUTER dark and light, can be one better world. Better in direction to live without hypocrisy, to live consciously with true love and honor as a primary base. Walking to this incoming experience, we have to remind us what did old Latin mean when they said : " Per aspera ad astra" (Through thorns up to stars).

Thank you once more. I expect your arrival and contribution in developing this topic.

Sincerely,

Branka 

Branka

Wonderful deep topic. Thanks to Georgios I was made aware of this forum - I missed or never recieved the notice.

I'll be back when I can think more about what you said and add some of my thoughts......

One thought I can add now - Early beliefs of some people is "as a soul personality, we choose our parents based on what we as a soul needs to learn and also the parents soul has to accept your soul into their life".

Of course that belief is prefaced with the belief in reincarnation.

Deep topic from a wopnderful friend.... I'll close with something I wrote.... on this picture!

Neil

Hello Neil - my dear friend!

A few minutes ago I have sent you a PM about starting this topic. And as I expected - you are here to contribute, thank you very much!

I did avoid a spiritual background of family - as our choice from another reality, just I was afraid to open the door of Pandora`s box too wide. But, your observation about it will be, from my part, absolutely welcomed.

Waiting for your come back!

Branka