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Re: The Spirit of Forgiveness for A New Beginning
12/11/2008 4:06:51 PM

Sam and Billdaddy,

Thank you for this at this special time of year.

Adland is the best, whatever other communities have they are but a poor shadow of Adland.

EVERY community has a mix of people who reflect the larger world. In the larger world there are folk with big egos, big dreams, self esteem issues, hostility, loving and nuturing ways, negotiators, leaders............ need I go on?

Adland has members who represent a wide range of spiritual and religious beliefs, those who reject any thoughts of spirituality, those who hold differing political views, those who just don't care.............. need I go on?

Adland has a reserved approach to online business, business is welcome if it's not pushed in your face. Adland reflects the larger world IN ALL IT'S WONDER, WARTS AND ALL.

In amongst this microcosm of life there will be folk who GENUINELY need to be loved and understood who have a need to be noticed or listened to or who feel they need to be in charge. What's new? That's life.

THE GREAT THING IS there are those who having made a mistake, having been misunderstood or having been just plain insensitive STAND UP AND SAY SORRY.

This forum represents this sensible and reasonable Adland, the one we need.

Thank you for being beacons in the darkness.

Everything you say and ask for I applaud without reservation.

I JUST WISH TO ADD ONE THING.

There are VERY FEW BAD PEOPLE.

Most people who are "bad" have a problem.

We just need to try to understand some peoples' needs but if they continue to hurt people they need dealing with BY THE COMMUNITY (and that doesn't mean a few self-appointed folk).

Love and understanding costs nothing. Lets all spread some understanding.

Forgive and move on please.       
We have something special here.

Roger

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Alain Deguire
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Re: The Spirit of Forgiveness for A New Beginning
12/11/2008 4:31:29 PM
Hello Dear friends!
This is a wonderful occasion in the best possible season to create peace within ourselves and then with others all around us...


HAPPY HOLIDAYS,
BLESSINGS,
Alain

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Amanda Martin-Shaver
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Re: The Spirit of Forgiveness for A New Beginning
12/11/2008 6:21:28 PM
Hello Sam,

I agree that Adland Pro is quite unique and different to any other Communities especially with the set up of forums, as you have complete control over your own forums and different thread topics. 

To me one's own forum is like your home, whereby one should
never allow their visitors to come in and take over your house and start redecorating, moving your furniture and or criticizing how you,
the owner runs your home. So members should not hijack your
forum with their advertising of different business or start a new thread topic without your permission, it is only polite. 

These times is when I delete any members who have opened a
new thread in my forum with a different business that is opposition
to what I am doing. There are members on Adland Pro that have opened their forums for Free Advertising and this is the place to use.

Topics in discussion can become quite intense, diverse and different opinions brought forth.  One has to always remember
when replying to someone whom has a different opinion to yours -
It is OK to disagree with the topic and give your opposing view.  However, it is never alright to name call in your disagreements. 
One has to learn no matter how hard you try, and present all your knowledge and facts on the subject there are people whom are
just not going to come over to your side and see things in the
same light as you and vice versa. (e.g. I do not agree with theirs) This what makes us unique and diverse. 

We need to know when to
agree to disagree, let the subject drop
and still stay friends and move on.

I would like to take this time to apologize to anyone whom may
have been hurt from my stand point in discussions - I definitely
did not intend to hurt anyone and did try to always address the
subject matter in opposition, yet for all intents and purposes I
am not aware of, I may still have hurt someone.  I am very sorry.

Amanda
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Re: The Spirit of Forgiveness for A New Beginning
12/11/2008 6:57:44 PM
Hi Sam and Billdaddy,

I agree with everything said here. i AM DEEPLY SADDEN by this  mess. Love is the Answer, but first we need to get out the bad feelings and can only do that by forgiveness. When you don't forgive, you carry that around and it just festers and grows and get worse and you feel worse, and worse until you explode. But forgiveness brings healing, and that is only done with LOVE  and LOVE IS THE ANSWER.

ADLANDPRO  is a wonderful community for all of us to enjoy.  I think we need the HO'OPONOPONO prayer here.  This is all there is to it:

 I love you! I'm sorry! Please, forgive me! Thank you!

Just keep repeating it time and time again.  It is a wonderful healing tool.

So if I have hurt or said anything wrong to anyone.  I tell you: I love you! I'm sorry! Please, forgive me! Thank you

LOVE IS THE ANSWER




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Re: The Spirit of Forgiveness for A New Beginning
12/11/2008 7:32:38 PM

So, I ask forgiveness for all those who feel they have been offended by me.  Also, I will forgive those who have offended me by any apology or just forgive and move on to better days.

Better days for our ALP Community.  Thank you Sammi and Billdaddy,

Sara

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