Never, dear Valerie, have you offended me in anyway.  As I have often been told, I am WAY too easy to get my feelings hurt - thus the ointment!!  Sometimes make-believe can work as well as anything, did you read Joe Downing's post??

So glad to have you back with us and posting in the forums and your new one.

Have a wonderful and safe holiday,

Sara

Valerie, how true this is -

I know how easily feelings can get hurt my misinterpretations. My husband and I used to do that all the time. We read into each others words, meaning that were not there. We had to learn to ask the other what they meant or confirm what we thought they meant. Boy did we speak an entirely different language!!

You may not think there is much difference in Alabama and Kansas but it was like coming from different planets!  Took years of learning and we still have our moments!!

I know I have a problem with communication.  It just does not come out the way it was intended - many times!!  Gets me in trouble all the time!! 

Thank you for sharing,

Sara